To inform out of town guests of registry, hotel, car rentals, sites to see, etc. don’t call everyone. Instead, email a newsletter to them or set up a website with all of the information. Weigh the cuteness factor versus the unpredictability factor when thinking about using children in the ceremony under the age of four. They have extremely small attention spans. Try and make sure that the groom has some involvement in the planning, even if you have no respect for his judgment. Tactfully make sure the mothers understand that this is your wedding. If you have reached a sticking point about something that you don’t want to do that your mother does, back off and think carefully and as logically as possible. Where possible give in on some detail if it would make you happier to see your mother’s satisfaction than to get your own way. But, if it’s something that you absolutely have you heart set on, I encourage you to cry uncontrollably until you get your own way. Brides should have an emergency bag available for the ceremony and reception that includes such things as white chalk and/or white out for touching up smudges on white shirts, blouses and dresses. Also, extra panty hose, safety pins, sewing kit and grooming supplies (i.e. make-up, hair dryer, bobby pins, curling iron, etc.) Allow at least 2 hours to get ready before your wedding is scheduled to begin. If you are having pictures taken before the ceremony, start getting ready 2 hours before your session is scheduled to begin. When choosing a reception and/or ceremony site keep in mind that Saturday night is the most expensive time. To save money, consider another evening such as a Friday. Morning and afternoon weddings also call for a lighter menu, so you’ll be able to save on the catering as well.